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	<title>Comments on: The Upside of ADHD, Enthusiasm, Empathy and High Energy</title>
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		<title>By: Frustrated Rants &#187; Hmmm&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://adultaddstrengths.com/2005/10/31/the-upside-of-adhd-enthusiasm-empathy-and-high-energy/#comment-7926</link>
		<dc:creator>Frustrated Rants &#187; Hmmm&#8230;</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Feb 2006 22:00:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] rtunities that others may not see because they have tunnel vision vs. multiplex vision. An ADDer invented the electronic ticket.  9. Great in [...]</description>
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		<title>By: cr</title>
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		<dc:creator>cr</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Feb 2006 21:00:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Pete said: &lt;i&gt;"well, there’s the magic of automatic bill payment so we can focus more of our time on the important stuff:)"&lt;/i&gt;

I get by by pushing as much of the time-related stuff as possible off onto the computer. Then I can dismiss the issue until it's time, so I can concentrate.

In UNIX/Linux systems (Macintosh OSX is BSD UNIX underneath the GUI), there's &lt;b&gt;cron&lt;/b&gt;. Windows machines have a crude equivalent in &lt;b&gt;System Agent&lt;/b&gt;. In both cases, this is a scheduler, and you can add stuff to that schedule, and the computer will do it at the time you've set. For more complex things than simple one-line commands, there are scripting languages; I use &lt;a href="http://www.perl.com" rel="nofollow"&gt;Perl&lt;/a&gt;, which is open-source and free for the download (and is probably already installed on your Linux system). It's easy to learn enough Perl to get by for this; you don't have to know &lt;a href="http://www.rexswain.com/perl5.html" rel="nofollow"&gt;the whole language&lt;/a&gt; to use it.

In my house, the main computer turns on lights and plays wake-up noises in the morning; at night it turns off lights the kids have left on (with X-10 modules). I have it play WAV files to announce when to get kids out the door for school in the morning, and when to get up and fix dinner in the evening. It's simple to set up a &lt;b&gt;cron&lt;/b&gt;-driven reminder to pay a bill on a given day of the month. You can even use &lt;b&gt;at&lt;/b&gt; on UNIX/Linux to play a WAV chime as a kind of &lt;a href="http://www.stormbringer.org/pers/crb3/gui/" rel="nofollow"&gt;kitchen timer&lt;/a&gt;, to tell you when to pull stuff out of the oven.
 
I get crowded or distracted and forget; the computer doesn't. With a little setup, you can use that too.

If you have a spare computer to put it on, there's an open-source home-automation project called &lt;a href="http://misterhouse.sourceforge.net/" rel="nofollow"&gt;Mister House&lt;/a&gt;, which takes this &lt;i&gt;offload the time-distraction onto the computer&lt;/i&gt; idea about as far as it will go.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Pete said: <i>&#8220;well, there’s the magic of automatic bill payment so we can focus more of our time on the important stuff:)&#8221;</i></p>
<p>I get by by pushing as much of the time-related stuff as possible off onto the computer. Then I can dismiss the issue until it&#8217;s time, so I can concentrate.</p>
<p>In UNIX/Linux systems (Macintosh OSX is BSD UNIX underneath the GUI), there&#8217;s <b>cron</b>. Windows machines have a crude equivalent in <b>System Agent</b>. In both cases, this is a scheduler, and you can add stuff to that schedule, and the computer will do it at the time you&#8217;ve set. For more complex things than simple one-line commands, there are scripting languages; I use <a href="http://www.perl.com" rel="nofollow">Perl</a>, which is open-source and free for the download (and is probably already installed on your Linux system). It&#8217;s easy to learn enough Perl to get by for this; you don&#8217;t have to know <a href="http://www.rexswain.com/perl5.html" rel="nofollow">the whole language</a> to use it.</p>
<p>In my house, the main computer turns on lights and plays wake-up noises in the morning; at night it turns off lights the kids have left on (with X-10 modules). I have it play WAV files to announce when to get kids out the door for school in the morning, and when to get up and fix dinner in the evening. It&#8217;s simple to set up a <b>cron</b>-driven reminder to pay a bill on a given day of the month. You can even use <b>at</b> on UNIX/Linux to play a WAV chime as a kind of <a href="http://www.stormbringer.org/pers/crb3/gui/" rel="nofollow">kitchen timer</a>, to tell you when to pull stuff out of the oven.</p>
<p>I get crowded or distracted and forget; the computer doesn&#8217;t. With a little setup, you can use that too.</p>
<p>If you have a spare computer to put it on, there&#8217;s an open-source home-automation project called <a href="http://misterhouse.sourceforge.net/" rel="nofollow">Mister House</a>, which takes this <i>offload the time-distraction onto the computer</i> idea about as far as it will go.</p>
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		<title>By: cr</title>
		<link>http://adultaddstrengths.com/2005/10/31/the-upside-of-adhd-enthusiasm-empathy-and-high-energy/#comment-7921</link>
		<dc:creator>cr</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Feb 2006 20:00:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;"Why do you think everyone fixates on the negative in these situations?"&lt;/i&gt;

In my opinion, that's because it's bad for the regimented lecture-hall style of &lt;b&gt;educator business&lt;/b&gt; used in American schools.

I have a son who is diagnosed-and-medicated ADHD, and another who is diagnosed-and-assisted ADD. Though I've not been diagnosed as such, I've been advised by a practitioner that I'm most likely ADD myself; the characteristics in the psychological profile done on me in my high school days (in the Sixties) match up pretty well with Pete's "10 Positives" list. 

None of us do well in conventional classroom settings, where the teacher spews from a book and the students listen and then regurgitate into tests. Where our learning is confined to this assembly-line method, we drag their percentages down. When we try to learn at our own often-faster but always-asynchronous pace in such a setting, we cause distraction and disruption problems. When we give a creative answer to a rote question (which happens often while we're learning the skill of balancing creativity and memorization), the instructor has to stop and think, and that throws them off their rehearsed delivery performance rhythm. When we give up trying and our attention wanders, it's obvious.

We're visible faults in a flawed business method.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>&#8220;Why do you think everyone fixates on the negative in these situations?&#8221;</i></p>
<p>In my opinion, that&#8217;s because it&#8217;s bad for the regimented lecture-hall style of <b>educator business</b> used in American schools.</p>
<p>I have a son who is diagnosed-and-medicated ADHD, and another who is diagnosed-and-assisted ADD. Though I&#8217;ve not been diagnosed as such, I&#8217;ve been advised by a practitioner that I&#8217;m most likely ADD myself; the characteristics in the psychological profile done on me in my high school days (in the Sixties) match up pretty well with Pete&#8217;s &#8220;10 Positives&#8221; list. </p>
<p>None of us do well in conventional classroom settings, where the teacher spews from a book and the students listen and then regurgitate into tests. Where our learning is confined to this assembly-line method, we drag their percentages down. When we try to learn at our own often-faster but always-asynchronous pace in such a setting, we cause distraction and disruption problems. When we give a creative answer to a rote question (which happens often while we&#8217;re learning the skill of balancing creativity and memorization), the instructor has to stop and think, and that throws them off their rehearsed delivery performance rhythm. When we give up trying and our attention wanders, it&#8217;s obvious.</p>
<p>We&#8217;re visible faults in a flawed business method.</p>
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		<title>By: Adult ADD Strengths &#187; Top 10 Advantages of ADD in a High Tech Career</title>
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		<dc:creator>Adult ADD Strengths &#187; Top 10 Advantages of ADD in a High Tech Career</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Feb 2006 21:53:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] rtunities that others may not see because they have tunnel vision vs. multiplex vision. An ADDer invented the electronic ticket.  9. Great in [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Pete Quily</title>
		<link>http://adultaddstrengths.com/2005/10/31/the-upside-of-adhd-enthusiasm-empathy-and-high-energy/#comment-5600</link>
		<dc:creator>Pete Quily</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Dec 2005 01:30:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>well, there's the magic of automatic bill payment so we can focus more of our time on the important stuff:)
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		<title>By: Penny</title>
		<link>http://adultaddstrengths.com/2005/10/31/the-upside-of-adhd-enthusiasm-empathy-and-high-energy/#comment-5522</link>
		<dc:creator>Penny</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Dec 2005 13:46:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I, too, am an ADHD adult who can't seem to "pay the bills", as Mr. Neeleman said, but find that this disability has great advantages.  I am more imaginative, creative and open-minded than most people I know that are not ADD/ADHD.  Friends and family call me talented.  I love crafts - some sewing, floral design, some jewelery making, interior design, etc.  I am also quite good at building spreadsheets for hundreds of applications at work.  I can be quite methodical about expressing myself on paper.  So much so that sometimes when I read my own stuff months later, that I even impress myself!  LOL  While I wouldn't want to be without my ADHD if it meant I had to give up my "talents", I would still like to be able to more consistently pay my bills on time. :)  </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I, too, am an ADHD adult who can&#8217;t seem to &#8220;pay the bills&#8221;, as Mr. Neeleman said, but find that this disability has great advantages.  I am more imaginative, creative and open-minded than most people I know that are not ADD/ADHD.  Friends and family call me talented.  I love crafts - some sewing, floral design, some jewelery making, interior design, etc.  I am also quite good at building spreadsheets for hundreds of applications at work.  I can be quite methodical about expressing myself on paper.  So much so that sometimes when I read my own stuff months later, that I even impress myself!  LOL  While I wouldn&#8217;t want to be without my ADHD if it meant I had to give up my &#8220;talents&#8221;, I would still like to be able to more consistently pay my bills on time. <img src='http://adultaddstrengths.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Pete Quily</title>
		<link>http://adultaddstrengths.com/2005/10/31/the-upside-of-adhd-enthusiasm-empathy-and-high-energy/#comment-4621</link>
		<dc:creator>Pete Quily</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Nov 2005 19:19:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Probably because we're a negative oriented society, that's what most people are looking for and what you focus on expands.

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		<title>By: Greg</title>
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		<dc:creator>Greg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Nov 2005 09:48:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I wish there were more articles like this out there.  Why do you think everyone fixates on the negative in these situations? </description>
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